“There once was a little black girl” … Some people know parts of my familial indoctrination story. Not many know specific details on every event unless they’ve earned the privilege. Only a select few know my present reality either. Privacy is a valuable commodity. But no one knows my future yet to be defined withinContinue reading “A 3ACT Story”
Category Archives: Familial Indoctrination Experience
¿no es encantadora?
Dominican models are taking over. These Afro-Latinas – – androgynous and multiracial beauties – – are flooding the fashion runways. These girls are heralding a sea change of sorts on the catwalks. This should come as no surprise since the rigid standards of beauty have been forced to change in recent years. The cycle willContinue reading “¿no es encantadora?”
Pretty Black Girl Shadow PSA
I’ve been going though some major challenges or “ish” whichever you prefer to call it. You would never know it in my blog posts or looking at me (except if you catch me ready to drop the F-bomb). My meltdowns usually happen in private. I work in silence when pushed against the wall – –Continue reading “Pretty Black Girl Shadow PSA”
#MatesForLife
I recently read a headline that instantly caught my attention. It triggered me to ask another million dollar question. “Why can’t humans mate for life?” This media story involves the brief courtship of two polar bears named after the Disney greats, Baloo and Aurora. Their relationship did not have a fairy tale ending. In fact,Continue reading “#MatesForLife”
Real Queens Inspire the Kitty
Below is an example of real Queens modeling how to showcase their different talents and individuality without bringing forth the energy of jealousy and envy. No competition. No hate. No low vibes. They are comrades playing a game of “sisterly rivalry” but there is no comparison between them. No one can eclipse them in beingContinue reading “Real Queens Inspire the Kitty”
A Mother’s Lesson On the Art of Giving
There is an art to giving. Everyone will always tell you that to give to another is divine. To give life or to help another in need is an opportunity to show the highest form of love. The exchange can generate enormous emotions as the giver feels positive vibes for doing the act and theContinue reading “A Mother’s Lesson On the Art of Giving”
Pretty Black Girl PSA
The word persona, in everyday usage, is a social role or character one presents to other people as opposed to their real nature or character. Its word origin is Latin, where it originally referred to a theatrical mask. Therefore, your persona or personality is your personal mask. Throughout this website, we have advocated that removingContinue reading “Pretty Black Girl PSA”
Tell the TRUTH and SHAME the Kitty!
I owe someone an apology. I stood by and watched, as my friend was being bullied by a group of jealous girls (gang stalking in today’s terms). Truth be told, my own envy reveled a little in her being talked about in the most unflattering way. You see, this young girl was incredible – –Continue reading “Tell the TRUTH and SHAME the Kitty!”
Rebranding Beauty
Women judge other women harsher than men ever do. Most will never admit it publicly. We profess an interest in expanding beauty standards but limit our acceptance of its many manifestations. Women of all races are uniquely beautiful with different features, shapes, hair textures and intellect. Self validation is the most important characteristic for genuineContinue reading “Rebranding Beauty”
Vogue Knows … Finally
Article: https://www.gofugyourself.com/vogue-actually-put-models-on-its-april-cover-03-2020?utm_source=share-email&utm_medium=butto But it will take a village to reshape young brainwashed minds. All things are possible …
